Empathy vs. Sympathy: Choosing to Connect

Empathy vs. Sympathy: Choosing to Connect

When someone in your life makes the brave decision of being emotionally vulnerable with you, you can either choose to join them or choose to keep them at a distance. This RSA short film features Brené Brown, one of the foremost researchers on shame and emotional vulnerability. Ms. Brown describes ...

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Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy: Preventing Future Episodes of Depression

Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy: Preventing Future Episodes of Depression

Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), developed by Dr. Zindel V. Segal, Dr. Mark G. Williams, and Dr. John D. Teasdale, has been found to decrease recurrent episodes of depression. Based upon multiple clinical trials,  MBCT reduces relapse in individuals ...

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Mindfulness Prevents Relapse in Depression

Mindfulness Prevents Relapse in Depression

Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) may be just as effective at treating individuals with recurrent depression as antidepressant medication, according to a recent study in the Lancet Journal.  The possible impact for treatment recommendations was discussed in the article,   Mindfulness holds promise for treating Depression, in the March 2015 Monitor on Psychology.  

As illustrated in the Monitor article, "one characteristic of depression is a habit of thinking negatively about  ...

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Goal-Oriented Positive Thinking Trumps Pie-in-the-Sky Optimism

Goal-Oriented Positive Thinking Trumps Pie-in-the-Sky Optimism

Positive phrases, such as “If you can dream it, you can do it,” can be detrimental to children and decrease their ability to meet their long-term goals. According to a recent article on MindShift, a website co-founded by NPR which covers current research on education and learning, "while inspiring words might provide a moment of motivation, it turns out they can have an adverse effect on achieving those goals."

Dr. Gabriele Oettingen, of New York University, reports ...

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The Devil is in the Details: Self-Monitoring

The Devil is in the Details: Self-Monitoring

Our daily actions, routines, and habits create the breadth of our lives. Making a significant change in our lives starts by making a behavioral change in ourselves. To start we must first identify our goal. Do you want to learn to speak Spanish? Would you like to improve your relationship with your spouse? Or would you like to improve your ability to manage conflicts with your mother?  Although the goals may vary significantly, they can be met once you identify your goal, develop operational targets, develop a habit of self-monitoring, and commitment to change. 

Once you have defined your primary goal you need ...

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Determining If Your Worries are Helpful or Harmful

Determining If Your Worries are Helpful or Harmful

Some worries are helpful. Thinking about anxiety provoking experience or situations can lead an individual to make decisions, to planning ahead, and to engage in effective problem solving.  Helpful worries tend to be goal-oriented, solution focused, and often start with “How”. For example, “How can I help my daughter do better in school?”, “How can I get that promotion?”, or “How can I feel closer to my mom?”. 

Harmful worries are those ...

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Happier, Healthier, and Sweatier: Exercise Improves Emotional and Cognitive Functioning

Happier, Healthier, and Sweatier: Exercise Improves Emotional and Cognitive Functioning

Exercise has long been known to improve physical functioning, longevity, and general well being.  Many studies over the past 10 years have also found evidence that consistent exercise, most frequently cardiovascular exercise, positively impacts your ability to regulate your emotions and improves cognitive functioning.

A recent article in Time Magazine provided ...

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